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Tons of Love

 I've said it before and I'll say it again. We are so fucking similar. Like I can't help but experience love for all of us. I think that feeling of love stems from the fact that we are all just here, trying to make sense of world, we have conflicts, we experience beautiful connections, we are insecure, we have issues, and we all here are just trying to go through all of this. Some of us have, some of us are in that phase, and some of us are getting out of it. Some of us have achieved what we wanted, and some are struggling for it.  Nevertheless, we are all the same. We want similar things (if we dissect things to the core). 

I wish more people saw this beauty. There's nothing except that here. I wish people actually snapped out of this world they are in where one is a certain way , and the other is the certain way. I wish more of us grew out of our ego and insecurities, and shame too. Like honestly, there's nothing out there. I wish we stopped attaching meaning to things, or events, or try to describe it in certain way. Wish we all were able to see things for what they are. Not that it matters what it is. 

By we, obviously I mean me too. I see people around me, and I look into myself, and find that we are the same. Just in different time and space. The inertness of being human, is same. We just express it or ourselves in different ways. I bet anyone could connect well with anyone, there literally would be no inequality, or every problem that we have in society right now if only we saw that. If only we embraced all the good and bad of each other. If only we were ok being "uncomfortable" or be willing to understand the other. And most importantly, if only we stopped competing. For some, the sense of self  is gotten by putting others down. If only we knew that there's no such thing as worth. 

Ok, a lot of words here... but the point is I love you. I love everything within you, you are fucking amazing, it doesn't matter if I know you or not, if we speak frequently or not, you sir/ma'am or whatever you like yourself being called, are awesome. You are worth everything, yk. I am sure, there's a lot you've been through and I'm proud of you for being you.. it really doesn't matter how you've handled the situations in your life. Whether it be what we generally called "good" or "bad", i just hope that you've learned to love yourself and just share the joy with others. It gets complex when we start talking about these things, but I would just say it's ok... I hope you just learn to accept whatever life throws at you. I personally had been struggling for quite a while, and you are not alone. Everyone struggles, but it's not bad. You are allowed to feel what you feel right now. There is not a certain way you should feel given certain circumstances. 

Anyways, I love you. Keep being you, forgive yourself, love yourself. Try to heal yourself. I hope you become this source of love that just radiates love all around you. And don't get affected by how people have treated you in the past, It's time to put all the emotional baggage behind. Don't let the past be a shadow into the future. 


- Until Next time 

Handsome Charming Man. 

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