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Political Correctness

If you know me, you know that I stand against this whole PC thing. About how you can say certain things, or how you should say certain thing. I think the culture of PC just promotes acting nice or saying things in a nice way, and I don't think it's a good solution. 

I would rather have a person say whatever they feel than being PC and mumbo-jumbling a bunch of words. It just seems very fake to me. I understand that a lot of being like this thing but maybe I haven't understood this whole concept or maybe they haven't or just there are multiple realities and both of them are right. Yeah... maybe that's it. 

Also, I hate this whole idea that you have to hate someone for a specific incident. Like how one act that a person did or said has made this person a really bad person. I had a recent realization that even though we say "oh be kind to others", I don't think most of us are (including me). Most of us are kind to a certain limit, up to when we don't get hurt by others or our egos don't get hurt. "Love only goes so far as your ego is not hurt" I love this statement and I think since kindness stems from love, kindness doesn't go that far as well. 

I wish I could go past this. You need to be kind to the person who just said mean things to you. You need to be kind to person who is angry all the time, because they are the one who are in actual need of kindness or love. We can be a good person, a kind person, a good friend, when things are easy, but the actual need to be all those things is when things get difficult and I think we fail on those areas. 

I don't know what's the best way to go about things. But I wish we were more honest. If anyone asks me if I am kind. I think my answer would be No. But I wish I was. I am trying to be. I am kind to a certain extent, but is kindness binary or is a shade of grey like on a spectrum. Maybe things are not as binary as I think. 

I like when people have consistent logic, are honest, and authentic. Those maybe the things I value and like, but we are different and a lot of people might just be logically consistent when it fits their narrative, are honest and authentic to the extent they need to be.Which is fine too. I guess. 

I don't know what I was trying to say here, but the point is PC is good but I think we should focus more on teaching people to actually be kind and not cancel people based on PC. That is it, I guess. 

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