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Looking into yourself.

Once one begins to look into themselves, it's can be pretty overwhelming? I don't know if that's the word but you find out things that you never thought about before. I am pretty sure a lot of us are fucked up. If not all. It's just some choose to share them and are open about it and some are not. Often, not expressing sides of ourselves is seen as a strong trait. Like look this person has all figured out and has a happy fucking life compared to someone who might be in the same posisition but you know a lot about them, how they feel, their insecurities and stuff like that. And I am guilty of this myself. Maybe other people don't feel that way but I have realized that I had seen people who I don't really know a lot about as strong because I only had seen the good part. While the person with the same level of achievement and even better I guess I thought that they should just stop being a crybaby. 

I obviously don't feel the same now. I think being really open about your emotions takes a lot of courage. And really not a lot of us have the courage to do so. So, I guess, if someone is being open about life's problems with you. Just know that you are the one that they feel safe around and all you have to do is listen. Just create that atmosphere where you can provide that space to others. As for me, I try my best to be that person. Although, I am not that social at this stage of my life and don't have a lot of people coming to me lol. But sometimes even I feel overwhelming when others do decide to open up. And I am impressed by the people who actually care about others and listen. So.. I don't know what I am trying to say. I would just end it with be kind? Radiate kindness? 

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