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I guess I was doing one thing right.

 These days I was thinking, how I haven't found anyone to deeply connect with in a while, but I am glad I avoided people instead of just hanging out with them for the sake of having friends. I had this confusion if I should make more meaningless friends or just wait until I truly find someone I click with. I think I did the right thing by not wasting my time around people who I don't vibe with or I know that they don't have the best interest for me at the heart. 

So often people complain about how they feel unwanted in their friend group but still choose to associate with the people. Yeah, let's not do that. Now, that I think of it, it was wayyy more productive and good for me to just learn new stuff and do programming projects instead of chasing that. As I reflect, that has given me more confidence and will be helping me in the long run than the meaningless parties and alcohol and weed. 

Social media or movies makes us feel like the only way to have fun is by doing all those stuff, but I was equally happy and content with the way I chose to spend my college years. Partying is wild in college, I had been to a few but that shit is crazy! Wayy too many people and lots of alcohol, and you spend too much time as well as money. I think I can finally say I did my college right, although I should've just prioritized my studies, interests and travelled more. But, it's ok. I am pretty happy with all I have. 

I am noticing that I am having back pain now which is not a good thing to have for a person in their early twenties. But, I need to now exercise more and take care of my health. 

Anyways, that is it!! I also have stopped using social media too much, I need to fix my youtube watching stuff lol, and learn a lot of stuff. Gotta make a million dollar soon and retire in a farm in Nepal.. or here.. or anywhere I want.. I'll think about it. But, I just want to make a $1M by my 30s. 6 years.. I think it's possible. I just need to me more mindful about the things I do and the way I manage and invest my money. 


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