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our conception of love


Turns out I had this as draft. But why? Let's publish incomplete work / writings. Who cares? 



Ok I love this girl. I had not thought about the Baudrillard's simulacrum and simulacra in this context, but now that I think about it, everything now is hyper-realized, with just not love but every aspect of our lives. 

Also I added this video to the playlist that I think everyone should watch. Not just for "love" but for relationship in general which includes, family, friends, and basically understanding others. We often act like we know how to handle these stuff or just "love" but it is also a skill, i believe. we should learn how to love and maintain relationships. 

This reminds of the videos of the school of life and Alain de bottom (who is the guy in the video below). I think everyone needs to watch this. at least once? 


Full playlist: Relationship and Stuff


Your very own, 

Handsome Charming Man. 

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  1. AnonymousJuly 17, 2025 at 9:30 AM

    hi

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  2. ElysiaJuly 17, 2025 at 9:31 AM

    Your article offers an intriguing and reflective take on modern love—highlighting how we often treat “love” as something we pass into digitally curated idealizations, rather than actively building it through shared understanding and intentional action. I appreciate how you emphasize that loving well is a skill we can learn and refine—just like any other relationship practice. If you or your partner are seeking to deepen that practice of love in real life, working with the best marriage counselor cincinnati could be transformative. These professionals specialize in couples support, helping partners grow trust, communication, and resilience—turning love from a concept into action. Investing in life success counseling through the best marriage counselor in Cincinnati can provide the tools to nurture a relationship based in mutual growth and lasting commitment.

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